When he called me a brat I realized he was giving me permission to be myself, that he loved it and found amusement in my small defiances, my daring moments, my tossing my head at him. I guess that’s why I could not say no to him when he asked me to do something.
What’s her favorite color? What’s something that always makes her laugh? What are her goals? Her dreams? What is she afraid of? Do you know what she likes do to when she wants to relax? Do you know what helps her when she’s had a bad day? Can you recognize when she needs extra love because she’s feeling needy but doesn’t want to say anything? Can you tell when she’s bothered by something? Do you know her favorite way to be held, to be cuddled, to be wrapped up in your arms? Are you her safe place to go to when the world gets scary? Does she feel safe opening up to you? Does she feel like she can tell you anything? Do you punish from a place of love/caring, for correction of her destructive behaviors, for her own good? Do you see her as a person, a whole complete, complicated person? Do you make her feel respected and cherished? Do you protect her? Do you take care of her?
Being daddy is way more than fucking her, and if you’re not ready to take her heart, mind, body and soul, and protect & treat them with all the love, care, tenderness, respect that you are capable of giving, then you’re not her daddy. You’re just some asshole who wants to be called that. And you can get fucked.
Everyone needs to see this.
I don’t care if I’ve reblogged this before. Everyone needs this.
Can’t reblog this enough
Saaame. 💜
~ Anthie
-You are now a body pillow
-You are also a giant rice bag (Accept your fate)
-You’re most likely sleeping with a star fish
-Prepare for cold toes against your back at 2 a.m
-Grabby hands!!!
-Entire adult sized child wrapped around your bicep
-Possible drool
-Yes you need to cuddle us
-Don’t be afraid to roll onto us and squish us, a lot of us like the close contact
-Yes we need more than one stuffie in bed with us
-No 13 blankets is not enough
-Expect us to practically mold onto you
-Yes we are clingy even in our sleep
-If we are having bad dreams don’t be afraid to wake us up
-Given the blankets won’t protect us from the monsters under the bed, you will need to be our Daddy in shining armor! AKA cuddles and snuggles are always accepted
i have so much stress inside my body i just want to be told what to do and not have to think for a while
